Friday, March 03, 2006
Scenario: Miss Shitty is Mr Conservative long time friend.Miss Insecure is Mr Conservative GF.
Miss Shitty to Mr Conservative: Oie shitty idiot, get me a PINKY (note it is pinky and not engagement or love declaration) ring for my birthday! As memory ... ...
Miss Shitty: ...Thinking to herself ... Let's test this Mr conservative, so bloody conservative, surely will not give a ring to agirl bah, want to give also give Miss Insecure. Evil Grinz ... ...Testing in Process ... ...
2 weeks after Miss Shitty's birthday, Finally the BELATED birthday gift ----> Shocking IT was A RING!!!!! Miss Shitty Test FAILED.Extremely Puzzled too ... ...
After 6 months
Miss Insecure: Felt very hurt still about Mr Conservative giving a ring to Miss Shitty. Mr Conservative mentioned it's a ring WITHOUT feeling! and the ring was bought by Miss Insecure!
FIRST MORAL of this TRAGEDY: GUYS out there, never give a ring to anyone unless you really feel something for that particular person, because A RING SYMBOLIZE LOVE, WANT TO BE WITH YOU, SPECIAL, JOY & HAPPINESS.
SECOND MORAL of this TRAGEDY: Having someone who loves you more than you love is a BLISS!
Third Moral of this Tragedy: Between a couple, there should be TRUST &COMMUNICATION, if you don't like it, you must say out and not hide it!!!! Or else INSECURITY GROWS and FEEDS on YOU!
Last Moral of this Tragedy: If the person doesn't suit or deserve you, why hogging on him/her for so long? Why not move on? Give yourself another chance to find true love and happiness!
Ending of story: Miss Shitty Has Walked Out of the Picture Completely ... ... Let's call it Quits, no longer a Threat to anyone! If problems still unsolved between Mr Conservative & Miss Insecure?? Non of Miss Shitty's business."
Amazingly, I got to know of this post. Read it, digested it and feel disgusted. The last I will know, MS Shitty closed her blog - Maybe?
I’m not a “MS INSECURE” – I should be "MS STUPID" or "MS TOO KIND". When I first heard about someone’s asking my bf for a ring as gift, I did ask y there is such a request. But knowing him well enough and the way he treats friends (it is one quality that I really love him for), I gave my “support”. Trust and communication? He could have just not tell me and hide it from me. But no, we shared it. The tinge of hurt was nothing hurtful – only get awaken by the fact that I could have insisted not to fulfill the request. But then, what for create a “hu-ha” and injured my rship. If he doesn’t get it for her, god knows what she’s going to remark about him – for she is so well known in kao peh-ing.
MS Shitty call that a Test? Is this a big joke? When is HE a person for MS Shitty to test for? Ironically her FIRST MORAL of the tragedy – since she knows the significance, in the first thing, WHY REQUEST?
As to her “LAST MORALE” – can’t find the relation on her moral to the story. Maybe she’s just talking about herself.
Anger did engulf me. Simply reason – I really feel for J – sad for his EFFORT in helping to fulfill sm1’s so called “test “. Friends are for us to love and treasure. Not a guinea pig to test or whatsoever. If you ever have a secret agenda towards a friend, please think twice hard. Lately, I had heard too much about friendship problems. Well, everyone has different ways to categorise/deal their friends. But for me, those that I really treasured, knows me by my heart and soul. J and I are still friends. I had moved on. So, is he.
4 Comments:
on 12:11 PM,
sÞ¡ηηєє said…on 8:32 PM,
said…hi i have been reading your blog for quite some time now and i remembered u wrote an entry on "the ring". i was wondering why you would write about that if u hinted (in this entry) that you guys have broken up. i cant help but feel that you have some insecurities regrarding your relationship. in a relationship, i think you should learn to trust your partner and all this insecurities must go. just my 2 cents worth. cheers :D
on 10:06 PM,
said…pls excuse me dat i wrote some comments on your blog..i happen to come across your blog, has been reading it for some time..it gave me a feeling that you re just sooooo...a insecure person..no trust in yr relationship..may cause distress..nobody else is to blame for your break up..time to do some reflections on youself...why you and your BF has broken up..?? wake up wake up...if your relationship is strong, nobody else or anything can harm you...ans spinnee, call yourself a friend..seems like you are more of a fire starter..if u re a good friend to purpl4x..u should advise her and calm her down..should not add more fuel to this..
on 11:13 AM,
said…
It's interesting to know after we have blogged about 'rings', someone tried to defend herself by writing this. AGAIN dunno what's the motive behind, maybe trying to lessening her guilt? or cover her INITIAL INTENTION by making up such a 'test story'?
Nice colors of humans we see.
It's scary to know how one mind can work and turn so sinister that we can't breathe. And to think pple still act saint and holy about it... and PUSH ALL BLAME TO EVERYONE.
I better go burn some 'xiaoren fu'. ;)